Looking for your soulmate is a daunting and never-ending quest that can only lead to shattered expectations and unattained relationship goals. That’s why, looking for particular qualities instead of a vague idea – like a soulmate – allows you to be more specific about what you want and can help you grow more healthy relationships. Here are certain approaches that could help you stop looking for ‘the one’, and instead, start searching for a relationship that is more realistic, honest, and healthy.